tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3615134038900981069.post6930623500961684899..comments2023-09-10T17:56:56.012+08:00Comments on Our Journey: in flameOur Journeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03527524348779089924noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3615134038900981069.post-65350573827953333422007-11-26T09:35:00.000+08:002007-11-26T09:35:00.000+08:00hehe, don't expect to be taken care of in future. ...hehe, don't expect to be taken care of in future. i never believe that our children is obligated to take care of us. it's only our obligation to take care of them, that's all.the INVESTORIAThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14753317082772701356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3615134038900981069.post-55197227307574120032007-11-23T14:11:00.000+08:002007-11-23T14:11:00.000+08:00let's see whether my son will take good care of us...let's see whether my son will take good care of us or not next time, since i'm so good to in-laws too :D Karma :POur Journeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03527524348779089924noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3615134038900981069.post-90367872866650734982007-11-23T11:37:00.000+08:002007-11-23T11:37:00.000+08:00ya, i know. thats why it's either:- the wife suffe...ya, i know. thats why it's either:<BR/>- the wife suffers, if she chooses to keep everything to herself & burst occasionally<BR/>- the husband suffers, becomes the punching bag of wife bcoz of this & that of his parents<BR/><BR/>& vice versa, of course :)<BR/><BR/>we always have choices. don't say no choice. also, being not staying with parents doesnt mean we are unfilial ;)the INVESTORIAThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14753317082772701356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3615134038900981069.post-32372646576735897312007-11-23T11:07:00.000+08:002007-11-23T11:07:00.000+08:00i have no choice one ler. but i never quarrel or c...i have no choice one ler. but i never quarrel or complain in front of them. want to keep my good image as a good dil :) hubby is my punching bag lar :POur Journeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03527524348779089924noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3615134038900981069.post-72006752904429279182007-11-23T10:57:00.000+08:002007-11-23T10:57:00.000+08:00thats the problem with staying with parents (or in...thats the problem with staying with parents (or in-laws) after marriage. being only child or whatsoever does not justify or neither husband nor wife to push for that option.<BR/><BR/>unless both parties can tolerate the uneasiness, the best is still not staying with parents, but go back to parents' place regularly, like few times a week maybe? :)the INVESTORIAThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14753317082772701356noreply@blogger.com